Friday, October 27, 2006
Small penis seeker
Insignificant?
First off, the one thing we do know about those who seek small penises is that their numbers are few. They're not a very visible group : An online search yielded many sites about penis enlargement and video featuring guys with 24-inch members, but finding anything about small penises was like looking for, well, a needle in a haystack. However, men who prefer small penises do indeed exist. There are Web sites and picture galleries dedicated to small penises and their admirers. In fact, there's a tiny subculture of guys who celebrate the "mighty mini." This preference ranges from an exclusive fetish (in which the small penis is necessary for sexual satisfaction) to simply a preference for a smaller member.
Penis envy
Some guys into smaller appendages are turned on by the power they sense by having a larger penis in comparison -- a turn-on in being more dominant, masculine or superior on the masculinity power hierarchy. Some chasers get off on the envy, watching the small-endowed guy admire his bigger one. Some guys will show off their penises to guys with smaller ones and play with this envy. For others, it's the comparison that's the turn-on -- a big penis next to a small penis -- exaggerating the differences. This turn-on is predicated on the idea that "big equals butch," which, of course, we all know isn't necessarily the case.
Submissive
In the same way that hairless smooth skin or a thin boyish body can symbolize submissiveness, so can a small penis. Of course, small doesn't necessarily mean "fem" or "bottom," but for some guys, a large penis is equated with masculine virility and power, and a small penis equated with the opposite. For those men seeking a dominant head space, a small penis may serve as a potent visual representation of submissive masculine energy. Within a BDSM context, submissives with small cocks help to de-emphasize the sub's penis, which is often part of the scene.
Growth spurt
Some chasers like the youthful and pubescent aspect of the small penis. For men into younger guys, a smaller penis can better create the fantasy of youth. If a huge member represents adult masculinity, a tiny member represents youthful masculinity. Other than being the "Conqueror of King Kong," one gets off on being the nurturer of the petite prince.
Goes down easier
Then there are those who lean towards smaller sized penises for the mechanical reasons. A smaller-size penis is easier to suck with less chance of gagging. Small ones can also be easier for bottoms to take with less pain or discomfort. However, there seems to be some debate as to whether smaller penises hurt less or more -- some men report that a smaller penis can poke rather than stretch the anal walls. Still, other guys like the rigidity of a small erect penis, as smaller members often get hard and stay hard more easily because there is less engorgement necessary.
Kiss it better
Yet another dynamic of tiny-penis psychology involves being turned on by taking care of or paying attention to the "neglected" or "rejected." While this gets a bit complex, admirers of small penises may actually have a "hero" or "savior" complex and get off by nursing the "hurting" little penis. The larger-endowed partner gets to nurse the hurt or rejected part of himself by attending to the smaller penis of his partner.
Size matters
They say size doesn't matter -- that it's the not the size of the ship that counts, but the motion of the ocean. Clearly, for some guys out there size does matter, and some prefer kayaks to the Titanic. Puts a whole new spin on the term "size queen."
First off, the one thing we do know about those who seek small penises is that their numbers are few. They're not a very visible group : An online search yielded many sites about penis enlargement and video featuring guys with 24-inch members, but finding anything about small penises was like looking for, well, a needle in a haystack. However, men who prefer small penises do indeed exist. There are Web sites and picture galleries dedicated to small penises and their admirers. In fact, there's a tiny subculture of guys who celebrate the "mighty mini." This preference ranges from an exclusive fetish (in which the small penis is necessary for sexual satisfaction) to simply a preference for a smaller member.
Penis envy
Some guys into smaller appendages are turned on by the power they sense by having a larger penis in comparison -- a turn-on in being more dominant, masculine or superior on the masculinity power hierarchy. Some chasers get off on the envy, watching the small-endowed guy admire his bigger one. Some guys will show off their penises to guys with smaller ones and play with this envy. For others, it's the comparison that's the turn-on -- a big penis next to a small penis -- exaggerating the differences. This turn-on is predicated on the idea that "big equals butch," which, of course, we all know isn't necessarily the case.
Submissive
In the same way that hairless smooth skin or a thin boyish body can symbolize submissiveness, so can a small penis. Of course, small doesn't necessarily mean "fem" or "bottom," but for some guys, a large penis is equated with masculine virility and power, and a small penis equated with the opposite. For those men seeking a dominant head space, a small penis may serve as a potent visual representation of submissive masculine energy. Within a BDSM context, submissives with small cocks help to de-emphasize the sub's penis, which is often part of the scene.
Growth spurt
Some chasers like the youthful and pubescent aspect of the small penis. For men into younger guys, a smaller penis can better create the fantasy of youth. If a huge member represents adult masculinity, a tiny member represents youthful masculinity. Other than being the "Conqueror of King Kong," one gets off on being the nurturer of the petite prince.
Goes down easier
Then there are those who lean towards smaller sized penises for the mechanical reasons. A smaller-size penis is easier to suck with less chance of gagging. Small ones can also be easier for bottoms to take with less pain or discomfort. However, there seems to be some debate as to whether smaller penises hurt less or more -- some men report that a smaller penis can poke rather than stretch the anal walls. Still, other guys like the rigidity of a small erect penis, as smaller members often get hard and stay hard more easily because there is less engorgement necessary.
Kiss it better
Yet another dynamic of tiny-penis psychology involves being turned on by taking care of or paying attention to the "neglected" or "rejected." While this gets a bit complex, admirers of small penises may actually have a "hero" or "savior" complex and get off by nursing the "hurting" little penis. The larger-endowed partner gets to nurse the hurt or rejected part of himself by attending to the smaller penis of his partner.
Size matters
They say size doesn't matter -- that it's the not the size of the ship that counts, but the motion of the ocean. Clearly, for some guys out there size does matter, and some prefer kayaks to the Titanic. Puts a whole new spin on the term "size queen."
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